WHY MANY BACK OFF ON PATH TO SUCCESS!

MATTHEW KAYODE FLOURISH AYANBIYI

I'M AN EASYGOING MAN, DRIVING BY PURPOSE AND VISION. A LOVER OF GOD, I WRITE, I SPEAK AND I TEACH.

25 articles

October 23, 2019

Are you tired or confused of your fruitless efforts on your path to success?

 

If yes then  read to know why.


Thousands of people outside there are craving for success in life but with "wrong expectations".

Often by chance, I do ask some to define success. But surprisingly, I see most people far away in their definition and from the success they're craving.

I unearthed that, a "life key" to success is always missing in their definition. "The right expectations are neglected and they often embrace the wrong expectations".

Dear Craver, success isn't the accumulation or possession of those material things or wealth, its in the price and sacrifices that was paid or that you'll have to pay.

However, the path to success is by first taking responsibility to define the reality of it. And the reality is that, no man has ever accidentally experience success in life.

Nevertheless, "Success without sacrifice is a product of someone's sacrifice before you, and your sacrifice without success is an assurance that someone will succeed after you".

Having understood this reality, the journey to success becomes glaring to our conscious mind.

Nowhere, the right expectations in success aren't the ones been thought or listed by many teachers or coaches of success out there, they aren't the dedication, commitment, determination and the likes of them that you can thought of.

They are the ones we often keep our eyes off from. The right expectations begins from seeing yourself first before the above mentioned points. Success and failure gives less regard to those points, they are not inspired or intoxicated by them but by you.

Because those listed points/triggers appears ordinary before the both success and failure. The only thing that could appear extraordinary before the both is "Yourself".

Do you actually see yourself a success or failure?

Invariably, whenever you appeared extraordinary before both success and failure, all the aforementioned points/triggers becomes extraordinary automatically.

The second right expectation is that, during the process of the journey, failure will become our friend!

Wait, did I just heard you saying never?

I'd like to make you believe that, there are no shortcuts to any place worth going in life especially success.

Success itself is failure with silver lining, it is failure turned in out.

Therefore, whenever you journey with this mentality on the path to success, it prepares you ahead for any failure awaiting you on the road.

Make it (failure) your friend, don't see your losses whenever you failed but the lessons that lies in your failure.

Sincerely, I'd say, there is no loss in failure if we learn from it.

Automatically, action kills the fear of failure on our head and then, it reproduces more strength and courage.

Note this, it is whatever that we don't prepared for that wins the moment from us. If you don't prepare for failure, it comes and hijack the moment.

When you don't prepare for the worst, the worst wins.

What I'm saying in essence isn't that you should be pessimistic but rather keep both hard time and hope in your heart.

Successful people face their uncertainty and doubt and prepare to pave way right away from failure to success.

Keep faith that, you'll prevail at the end.

Though your body may appear hurt during the journey but, keep your spirit unbeatable, unstoppable and high ever, make failure your friend, ever prepare for it and kill your friend (failure) with action by appearing extra everyday.

Shalom

@Flourish,2019

 

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MATTHEW KAYODE FLOURISH AYANBIYI

I'M AN EASYGOING MAN, DRIVING BY PURPOSE AND VISION. A LOVER OF GOD, I WRITE, I SPEAK AND I TEACH.

25 articles

October 23, 2019


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