FAMILY IS BEYOND THE PHYSICAL

MATTHEW KAYODE FLOURISH AYANBIYI

I'M AN EASYGOING MAN, DRIVING BY PURPOSE AND VISION. A LOVER OF GOD, I WRITE, I SPEAK AND I TEACH.

25 articles

October 18, 2019

 

Part one

I don't really want to write on this because of it's confidentiality but something in me keep pushing my fingers to type. I believe it's ripe time for it and for someone to be blessed.

One fateful day early this year, a woman rushed down to me with a worried face and said, Kayode, what can I do? I have been serving my husband his meals for some days and he didn't bother to open it not to talk of eating.”

Then I replied “Madam, all will be well but calm yourself first I'll talk to him".  

she replied, "alright I'll hope to see his good turn out".

I was so compassionate about the woman, I could felt how perplexed she was. And at the same time, I couldn't phantom why she assumed that kind of responsibility on me.

I thought within myself, after all; I'm still a bachelor who has no experience of settling rift between couples.  

At the long run, She saw me later in the evening time and asked,

“have you talked to him?"

No. ... I replied.

But assured her with faith that the man will eat and she shouldn't worry.

Actually, I didnt want to meddle into the affair because of her safety in marriage. You should understand that.

Then reporting the issue to God in prayers flashed through my spirit.

Immediately, I went and submitted my knees on the altar of prayer and committed both the heart of the King and of the Chief to the one who has their keys in His hand (God).

The following morning as I was about to leave for farm, I told the woman with faith...

“Prepare and serve his meal this morning.

Then I went my way.

Fortunately, on my way coming back from the farm I saw the woman's face glowing with smile,

“I have been looking for you... He ate this morning!... She said.

“Thanks be God".

But the vibe I could get from her was that, she got back her peace.

***

However, let me quickly say this for our married brothers and the bachelors.

Please, regardless of the degree of misunderstanding between you and your wife, don't frustrate her by neglecting her meal.

It is not a substitute for your agreement!
It will make her worried, perplexed, depressed and it will affect the entire home.

Because wherever two elephant fights, the grasses under them suffers the pain.
By avoiding this, I believe will be able to create a conducive atmosphere for the family.

Dear sir/ma, among all the most Indispensable factors that can build a coexisting home in marriage, on thing is more indispensable even it stands tall among them all, and that is "Prayer".

May I not deceive you, every physical occurrence or manifestation has happened / been tested  in the spiritual realm before it is known physically.

I can factually say, the spirit of her husband been addressed in the spiritual gave the foreground to the physical manifestation.
So, it takes the spiritual to control the physical! 
"It takes settlement on the altar of prayer for a man to smoothen his ways in life physically.”

Ephesians 6:12-13, has the answers for us to transpire the spiritual victory into visible one in our lives.

Therefore, when Paul declared, "there shall be no loss" when they were being tossed by the storm.

Note that it wasn't a wish neither was it a request but the confirmation of the spiritual settlement (What the Angel told him) (Act 27:22-25)

Yes, there is Grace, favor, mercy and so on, but they are supplement to what you prayed for.

When the disciples understood and knew the power in prayer, they asked Jesus, "teach us to pray". It wasn't that they don't know how to pray, they were asking, " Master teach us the act of prayer ".

Before you begin worrying about that issue, go and settle it on the altar of prayer first.

And I'm sure, it will be well.

Shalom!

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MATTHEW KAYODE FLOURISH AYANBIYI

I'M AN EASYGOING MAN, DRIVING BY PURPOSE AND VISION. A LOVER OF GOD, I WRITE, I SPEAK AND I TEACH.

25 articles

October 18, 2019


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