My lady, I hear you guys broke up and you're about  saying yes to another guy, issokay, well my dear wait,  hun, chill let me share a word with you. 

I was once in this thing they call relationship with this guy, trust me when I say he is cute like cute with brains, ☺  I knew the feeling was there and as at then I was kind of ready for all the commitment and all.

I had my expectations everyone does anyways, I wanted him to be here and there I guess they were too high for him, he tried, really he did.

You know, on the long run, I started seeing the need to be with another person because he was not just meeting my expectation.
I saw fault in everything and I just needed a break. 

I tell you love isn't enough to sustain a relationship 

Do you know all these while he was there hurting, he knew my expectations but don't know how to go about it, I was not patient enough for him, I pursued my own selfish interest.
When I felt I couldn't take it anymore I  called it quit one morning and that was it. 

You feel I'm heartless and wicked, I feel the same and guilty 
I got to know something  after I had made decision ,I felt so bad ,I couldn't beg him cos of ego I expect him to do the begging, I missed it big time because of pride and lack of patience.

Let me pause here and ask did i actually do the right thing  by calling it quit or I was really wrong to have done that? 

Moral Lesson 

Never ever, I repeat never ever be in a haste to conclude on things or people, take your time, consult people if need be, let the person talk to.  Take a chill pill.

Watch this space for the concluding part....