Nkechi wasn't her first relationship but she was the one she loved the most, that why she was really heartbroken when things ended between them. She had tried to keep in touch with her but whenever she does Nkechi would always say she was busy and as time went on she assumed Nkechi wasn't just interested in her anymore so she let her be.

Her first relationshipwas short and not too interesting, she attended an all girls’ boarding school which exposed her to the lesbian world but as at then she never saw herself fitting into that world. She had this bff who by the way was already into lesbianism and that was how she was dragged into it. Although she was a lesbian while in secondary school she never had sex, though she had fantasize about it a lot but those fantasy didn't come to pass till she met Jenifer right after she left secondary school and it was Jenny (like she normally calls her) that took her virginity. After Jenny she had two other relationships one with a bisexual and the other a lesbian and it was after she broke up with the lesbian that she met Nkechi.

She had just resumed for her third year in school and it was at the point of registration she first saw Nkechi but they couldn’t talk due to the whole stress of getting registered. The next time she saw her, it was at her faculty and this time they were able to talk, “wow, is that Take the Risk by Ben Carson” she said as she took a seat beside Nkechi. “Yes it is” Nkechi replied. “Wow! I can’t believe it, I have been searching for this book, can you possibly lend me? “Of course that’s when you are through with it” she added when she noticed the expression Nkechi gave. “Well lending you isn’t the issue but how do I get to see you when I am done with it” Nkechi said. “Aren’t you a member of this faculty? She asked. “I am but I don't receive my lectures here, I only came here to finish up my registration” Nkechi replied. “Then I guess I have to take your number so I can call you to know for sure, by the way you said you are here for your registration, may I ask what registration is that? She said. “The one for the field trip and one other one like that” Nkechi replied. “I guess today is your lucky day, I know the guy that is in charge of the registration, I can help you talk to him” she said back. “I would be very glad, I have been here for three days now and I haven’t been able to do anything” she responded. “Alright then, follow me let go see him in his office” she said. And that was how she and Nkechi became friends and from friends they became lovers something Nkechi didn't believe was going to happen.

Throughout her first and second year Nkechi was very serious with her studies, her schedule was from her hostel to school to tutorial back to the hostel and on weekends it was between tutorial and church. She didn't socialize that much, the only friends she had were those that stayed in the same hostel with her and they didn't even talk much but there was something about Seun that she likes, she was caring, understanding, lively and fun to be with. Typically when it comes to socialization Nkechi didn't know where to turn to and that was why she enjoyed the company of Seun. Whenever she felt bored she would call her to come over and they would gist from morning till night and this was how she got to know that Seun was a lesbian. After so many attempt of getting Nkechi a boyfriend had failed, Seun decided to make a move on her and her gambled paid off. “I know you are surprise that I agreed to date you because I told you I am not a lesbian which is true. But ever since I caught my elder sister with my cousin having sex together, I have secretly wished to experience what it felt like, I have read a lot of books and as shameful as it might sound I sometimes masturbates”. The first time they had sex Nkechi was blown away as she never knew that sex with a girl could be so pleasurable and breathtaking. “Wow if I knew this was how it feels I would have probably had sex a long time ago”, Nkechi said right after she reached her first orgasm. “If you have never had sex before then who come disvirgin you? Seun asked. “Like I said I masturbate a lot and it was during that process I disvirgin myself” she replied. “Wow that must have been some pretty serious masturbation you did” Seun said right before she placed a kiss on her lips as they enjoyed another round of sex.

It was when Seun moved over to Ibadan that she was able to get over Nkechi, the plan was to stay in Enugu, find a job and an apartment so whenever Nkechi was free she could always come over. Since Nkechi wasn't even forthcoming on her promises she decided to head back home and it was then she met her new love, though it wasn't the kind of relationship she would have love to have because the girl she met said she would only date her if she agrees that they would once in a while have sex with men. The relationship was more of a when the desirable is not available the available becomes the desirable kind of a thing, perhaps she thought to herself what harm would it do if she decide to have sex with a man. “I guess there is always a first time for everything”, Seun said when her new love gave her the condition.